Being social in those social events…

Yes.. those dreadful moments. All of us have them. And all of us have to face them. Few get lucky and are saved.

Some of these moments will be arriving in  my life next week. I have to attend my friend’s engagement. I don’t want to attend it. I would be left alone..inspite of being with so many people over there.But then being with so many people makes me feel more lonely. I feel uncomfortable after some time.

The scene would be :

The aunties of the house will be busy with work..and since I dont visit them much..even if I offer them my help..i wont be of much help really.. isn’t it? Cz they only know the inside out plans n procedures. I would just add to the chaos. Then some mutual friends would be there. So some light talks and the on-goings of life n similar ghise pite conversations would happen.  Some more Q would come up.. the most horrible of those would be ” So.. what are the plans of your marriage? ” and I would feel like going and drowning myself in one spoon water. 😐 Eventually I would move away from them and find myself standing alone or exploring my cell phone for some 100th time. Now that would also have to end no?  Now what? It sucks..Right? Just how much can you interact with people..? During such occasions I feel that I am so very unsocial. So a new Q comes up : Is it wrong to be unsocial?

I dont know.

I dont like being with people. I like being alone. I like being in my own world. I mean..i like making friends.. but I dont like going on with interactions just for the sake of it. People these days meet each other mostly to ask for some favors and such stuff. And on the other hand I find no reason to meet new people. Rarely do I find people who really want to talk about some good stuff..some rich stuff and not just business and money and all those overly materialistic stuff.  I hate those get togethers and parties where I just have to keep that plastic smile on my face after the hellos n hi’s n prelims of laughter n fun gets over. I hate being a part of such stretched moments. I cant attend such functions for others. And if any such situation comes up , what I want is to attend the function just for an hour or so. Just so that both sides are happy. I really really cant go on being alone with others present and pretending to be so happy that these are the only moments they were waiting for. Fake. All of them fake.

Watching people can be a cure.. but that would be a temporary one. I cant just watch people for long no? they would become doubtful. 😛

So.. the end-line comes as I don’t like being social. And i also don’t like to be forced to become social. I have my friends with whom I am comfortable enough and even if i don’t meet them for months, I don’t feel alone. being social may be an art of some people.. but I cant count myself as one of those.

Being social is NOT just me..!!


N all the tweets are not for you my dear…

Yes.. This is true. Follow me doesn’t mean you have to follow me EVERYWHERE. Am so fed up of this mentality of people that all the tweets are posted, keeping them..and only them in mind. I am sure most of you also have gone through this and more are there who are going through this irritating behavior of people.

First of all.. just why do people think that all the tweeting is for them? How are they able to think so much about those tweets that are nothing but just nonsense? Whatever rubbish or non rubbish is posted.. they react so  instantaneously as if they were waiting since ages for the next tweet. Idiots!! No.. Really. I refer to them as idiots. They are so good at assuming.

People, please please stop doing such acts.. and drama. For your kind information if a person is on twitter..

-They have joined for themselves.. not for you.

-They followed you because you also followed them.. n did that out of some manners/or if they liked your tweets.. n not to have any kind of friendship or get into any kind of relation with you.

-If you think they am rude to you.. so they are.. and they will continue to be until you check your sickening attitude.

-They tweet according to themselves.. and also.. they would reply to the DMs as per their own wish, if you are impatient about the replies.. then rest assured that you wont be replied until n unless they find it important.

-I may be sounding very very rude but people like you are only responsible for such rudeness.


And now I would like to tell you some uses of twitter that you dont seem to be aware of.. n use it for all other idiotic purposes.

-Twitter is a social site.. where you get to MEET new people.. mind you.. just meet them.. and 99% of them are strangers.

-Twitter is not a chat room please dont start it by asking Q like “How are you, What do you do, Where are you from” n all such sh*t.

-Whether you follow people randomly or not..please take care that not everyone will be entertaining your over friendly..or over chatty attitude.

-M saying again… Twitter is for posting news, information, feelings,emotions, rage, fun… in the form of tweets and nobody is here to entertain anyone.. just ANYONE.

-On twitter people converse with each other by being in their own comfort zone.. and if you try to create disturbance.. you’ll be UNFOLLOWED or BLOCKED or BOTH. So please take care about this.

-If you are on twitter for followers..Respect them/Enjoy with them/Have fun/Share information.. don’t pinch them all the time by your nonsense mentions and replies and DMs too.

-Twitter is not for people who get emotional all the time..or those who cannot handle sarcasm/taunts n any such stuff. So if you are emotional.. please join twitter at your own risk. No one will be held responsible for your mood swings and tears.You can sulk n cry as much as you want but don’t expect anyone to check you out.

-Twitter is NOT a matrimony site. Dont try to find your life partner among your followers or others. If at all you get someone for yourself.. our hearty congratulations to you. And double relief that now you wont be disturbing us..or someone else for that matter.

I guess this is enough for today. Twitter should not be taken too seriously. People join twitter to meet people, post tweets, gain n share info about/from almost all the the spheres of life. Please dont make it unpleasant by your immature/sulking/non-twitterish or any other such attitude. You irritate a lot. Sometimes it feels that you should be blocked some 100 times for such behavior. But unfortunately that doesn’t happens. So if you want to remain on twitter and that too with all your respect, please pay attention to the above written.

Thanks!! and if you are again seen doing any such thing.. don’t blame others for the consequences. Happy Tweeting!!! 🙂

letting go…

There’s a time when we must let go…

let our tears speak

and let the feelings flow..

letting go helps..

and decreases the yelps..

things become more clear..

and our life gets a steer…

its never an easy task..

but that is what can heal our heart…

its not that we don’t care..

its just that we can no more share..

we don’t have the grip anymore..

and so just trust those lights on the  shore..

as they take two steps forward..

we take two steps back…

its not easy for us..

but we soon get the knack…

we let them go..but we are never really far..

They can always reach us.. Wherever we are..!!

and then it rained..

“this wet thing called rain had an art..

that some found as a disaster and some as a new start…”

The clouds rolled in…

and my soul started to spin…

It rained..

washing away all over me..

drenching me to the core..

soothing everything that was sore…

blessing my heart, my mind and my soul..

the raindrops fell down and pooled up..

drop by drop they filled my cup..

I watched myself getting wet…

and an unspoken freedom was all that I felt…

it poured harder n harder..

and with each raindrop…

I sensed great ardor…

I watched it leaking through the roof…

and dripping through the leaves..

and as it fell down passing my fingertips..

my heart opened up as it washed away all my griefs..

I silently watched my private show…

and let the clouds of ecstasy  flow…

Happiness dawned over ..

And I smiled at myself  as a satiated rover..!!